When you are at the age of 50-60, you do not have much time in front again and you can not take away what you've earned. Will be useless if you still bother to make money and save. So, you spend the money you save it for traveling, shopping something you like, give what you can and do not worry about getting back.
Do not think to leave everything you have earned for children. You also do not need to worry about what will happen to your child, or you will be judged on how, because they return to the dust and then I did not hear any praise or criticism anymore. The time that you live happily on earth, the time to search the wealth of countless hardships will end. You do not worry much about the relationship with the children, because they have their own destiny, and make sure the children will find their way in this life.
Do not be a slave to your children. Keep your relationship with your children, love and help when they need it, but at the same time to be content with the wealth you had saved for their children. Longer life working life. Think of retirement as early as possible and be satisfied with life. Do not expect too much on your children. Most of the children are beloved parents, but your kids are too busy with work and other constraints should we care more.
There are also some careless child, we can argue about your possessions, even if you're still alive and we want you to be able to leave earlier to inherit houses and the wealth of the parents. Generally, children are naturally that we inherit everything you own while you have no power over their children's money. Thus, after the age of 50-60 you do not need power cost, no need to add a health loss of wealth in exchange for more time to work, but to the grave. Your money does not have any value before death.
When will we stop making money? How much money is enough? A hundred thousand dollars? One million? Ten million? From thousands of hectares of land are also just a little bit to eat vegetables and bread half a day; from a couple of house you have built, the fact that you only need a few square meters for you: a place to sleep, a place to rest, a place to shower and a place to cook. With short a time that you need a place to live, some money to eat, to wear and some other essential items ... so you have to live good. Just live happy, happy is.
Every family has problems, no matter what social mode. Do not compare with others in terms of financial, Do anyone interested in more wealth, or the children who achieve more material things, but to go out more, to the bars, travel foreign tourist. Let's quickly set up scales to compare to see who has more free time than anyone, happier, healthier, and who live longer. Do not worry about things you can not change. It does not help you, but not as good mental state also lead to illness. Give yourself a regular steady state and determine if what makes you happy.
You must be healthy and happy, make up for a plan and wait for the next day. One day live without single moment of fun is a day lost a waste. One day though only a moment of joy and a day is beneficial. An optimistic soul healing help quickly. A happy soul, there is no cure to the disease, because it helps you to repel illness ... Keep you a good mental state, go outdoors often, go in the sun, eat more real contains vitamins and minerals, and please pass all obstacles to live many years with strength and good health.
Be content with what you are and what is around you. And do not forget your friends. They are the wealth of your life. Keep relationships lasting friends, to respect some basic principles: hard to hear and do not interrupt; talk and not mocked; let go but do not bother to get back; Please answer the question, not to protest; forgive and not to blame, and has promised not to forget. Thus you will never be lonely.
